When my friends say they're broke, they still have about £700 in their bank, £3k of savings, a £1200 overdraft and a £5k credit card limit. When I say I have no money, I literally have about £1.27 to last me until payday.
I like when people have a strong sense of self and aren’t a caricature of others. People who take self discovery seriously. From what they like to wear, to their core beliefs. People who’re more interested in being a version that pleases them, not one that impresses the public.
A man was telling me that "Men are so afraid of being falsely accused of r@pe" I said Brother......Stop drinking, stop going outside late at night, and for god's sake stop choosing the wrong women. If not you're literally asking for it. Hope it helps
My friend was blamed for being infertile. They’d been married six years. No baby. So obviously, according to everyone around them, it had to be her. They kept seeing the same doctor, older male, very confident, the kind who barely let you finish a sentence. He ran tests on her over and over. Bloodwork. Scans. Hormones. Put her on pills that made her gain weight and cry at random. Every appointment ended the same: “Your body just isn’t cooperating.” “Some women have weaker reproductive systems.” “Your husband is perfectly healthy.” Her husband never got properly tested. Just one quick analysis years ago. “Normal,” the doctor said. Case closed. For years, his family made comments. Told her to pray harder. Lose weight. Stress less. Be more “feminine.” She apologized for something that wasn’t even hers to carry. One day, after another failed cycle, she secretly booked an appointment with a different doctor, a female fertility specialist. That doctor reviewed the old reports in five minutes. She looked up and said, “Why was your husband never re-tested?” New tests were done. The results? Severe male factor infertility. Low count. Poor motility. It had been there the whole time – just ignored. My friend wasn’t infertile. She was just easier to blame.
Male loneliness epidemic but yall r dumb as fuck. And porn addicts. And unemployed. And mopey and unbearable to be around bc u got ur heart broken in middle school. Or still obsessed with an ex who wants nothing to do with u
Being called difficult, hard, selfish, arrogant,...are the best compliments. It means you have boundaries and you stand up for yourself. Stay like that!!!