.Look for your father even if they tell you he died, look for his grave, even when he mistreated you and was absent, nature normally undermines phenotypic characters and focuses on Genotypes.
I don't blame the children of kafero for doing what they are doing.
Knowing your father means knowing your roots.
But without knowledge of your roots. Even if you fulfil all the desires of your heart, you will always feel empty and miss something deep down......
That father of mine sent me to go buy him straw to get water and I refused asking him since when he used straw for taking water, only for him to ask for his last born and send me to go bath because I was smelling, Before I got out of the hospital gate kee, the man had slept off.
@DrOtileUg I am amazed by the achievements you are making in quite a short time of your stay abroad. In uganda, it would have taken you 5 PhDs and certain connections with some professors to attain just one.