Ladies please remember to fill your own cup. You want flowers; go buy you some, you want a date; go enjoy a meal at the bar, you want a new bag; go cop it! We have to stop relying on men to make us happy, happiness begins within. Love on yourself, the feeling is so rewarding.
Your feelings are valid. And they are your responsibility. Learn to work your own feelings out in your own space and stop trying to push them on other people to manage.
To protect your peace of mind, you've got to let go of people who continuously mess with ur mind by getting angry & playing victim when they are confronted about their behavior. Its how theyve learned to survive. You have a big heart, but dont leak ur goodness. It's ok to let go.