i hate the word lazy. i think it’s a silly word created & mostly used by those who view people as tools for productivity. most ppl using that word in a condescending way are just unsettled that someone isn’t producing to their standard so they label them. i hate that
when i’m mentally sick, i need help doing things. there is everything to do but im too overwhelmed to do anything. so i need help completing tasks. i need help cleaning, cooking, typing, answering emails, going places, & help w/ anything else on the list.
my whole life i had low maintenance friendships yet always felt so sad and empty in them. i used to feel bad for wanting more from them. now i have a tribe that gives more without me even having to ask. took years but it’s here.
Some of you are always on the ‘it’s not that deep’ side of arguments because what’s not that deep is you. You lack depth. Just straight up inability to absorb anything that doesn’t concern you.