Jenii-Leigh

Achieving my dreams one little step at a time ❤️

[Jenii-Leigh @Jen_y_ifer]

@AldiUK bought a whole chicken this morning (extra large may I add) to do a boujie picky tea….. not ideal 🙃🙃

[♰ 𝙽𝚊𝚎𝚝𝚘 @fw_naetoblaq]

Nothing hurts more than seeing yourself again in the same situation after getting better for a while.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

You literally could be DEPRESSED for MONTHS and the only thing people will notice about you is how easily you get irritated.

[Jenii-Leigh @Jen_y_ifer]

Up for work in 4 hours……..😩

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

I'm an eldest daughter which means I'm automatically irritated by your incompetence because l was never given room to be imcompetent. I won't be elaborating. The daughters who know get it.

[Nunnie The G @NunnieTheG]

Nobody talks about the type of heartbreak where you don't cry anymore, you just stare at walls and feel nothing at all. It's not anger. It's not sadness.
It's the silence that comes when your nervous system has shut down from too much pain. It's emotional exhaustion disguised as calm.

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

The worst feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a real conversation with a man about his behavior that hurts her, but instead of listening, he gets angry and turns it around on her. It cuts deep, a mix of frustration, sadness, and emotional abandonment. She isn’t trying to argue; she’s trying to be heard, to heal, to make things better.
But instead of understanding, he gets defensive. Instead of acknowledging her pain, he deflects, blames, or mocks. Suddenly, the issue isn’t what she said it’s how she said it. And just like that, her pain gets buried under his anger.
What hurts most isn’t the argument it’s the message behind it: Your feelings don’t matter. Your pain is inconvenient. Your voice is too much. That becomes a silent wound, forcing her to shrink herself just to keep the peace. But peace without understanding isn’t peace it’s silence.
Eventually, she starts to question herself: “Maybe I’m too sensitive.” “Maybe I should just let it go.” But deep down, she knows better. Because when a woman speaks up about her pain, it’s not an attack it’s a gift. It’s her saying, I still care enough to fix this. And when that moment is met with anger instead of care, something inside her starts to shut down for good.

[Jenii-Leigh @Jen_y_ifer]

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[lets heal and recover @recovery_your]

Suicidal thoughts aren’t always “I want to die.”
Sometimes they sound like:
• I can’t carry this anymore.
• I feel disconnected from everything.
• I’m here, but not really living.
• Nothing feels real or safe.
• I’m tired in a way sleep can’t fix.
• I don’t know how to pretend I’m okay.
• I just want the pain to stop.
These aren’t dramatic statements.
They’re distress signals.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Bro, how did you mess up with a woman who didn't want anything from you but you?

She wasn't asking for money.
She wasn't demanding expensive gifts.
She wasn't requiring luxury trips.
She wasn't measuring your worth by your wallet.

All she wanted was your time, attention, and loyalty.

And you couldn't even give her that.

She didn't need you to be perfect.
She didn't need you to have it all figured out.
She didn't need you to be rich or famous.
She just needed you to be real with her.

And you fumbled.

She wanted consistency, and you gave her confusion.
She wanted honesty, and you gave her lies.
She wanted loyalty, and you gave her betrayal.
She wanted effort, and you gave her excuses.

Do you know how rare that is?

A woman who loves you for who you are, not what you have?
A woman who's down to build with you from the ground up?
A woman who doesn't care about your bank account?
A woman who just wants you to show up and be present?

That's the easiest relationship to maintain.

No pressure to be something you're not.
No stress about keeping up appearances.
No anxiety about providing material things.
Just genuine love, simple requirements.

And you still messed it up.

You got bored because it was too easy.
You took her for granted because she wasn't demanding.
You thought you could do whatever you wanted because she was loyal.
You assumed she'd always be there no matter how you treated her.

She asked for the bare minimum:

Communication - you went ghost.
Time - you made excuses.
Honesty - you lied.
Respect - you disrespected her.
Loyalty - you entertained other women.

She wasn't even asking you to move mountains.

Just answer the phone when she calls.
Just make time for her in your schedule.
Just tell her the truth.
Just treat her with respect.
Just be faithful.

That's it.

But somehow, that was too much for you.

You chose the streets over someone who chose you.
You chose games over someone who was real with you.
You chose temporary excitement over permanent peace.
You chose everything and everyone except the one who actually mattered.

Now she's gone.

And you're realizing what you lost.
Now you see her value.
Now you understand what you had.
Now you want to fix what you broke.

But it's too late.

She gave you chance after chance.
She forgave you time after time.
She stayed when she should have left.
She loved you through your worst.

And you still didn't get it right.

Some other man is going to get the upgraded version of her.

The version that learned from loving you.
The version that's healed and stronger.
The version that knows exactly what she won't tolerate.
The version that requires what you refused to give.

And he'll do everything you didn't do.

He'll appreciate what you took for granted.
He'll value what you treated like nothing.
He'll protect what you damaged.
He'll love her the way you should have.

And you'll be sitting there wondering what happened.

How you lost the easiest thing you ever had.
How you ruined the best relationship you could've asked for.
How you let go of someone who wanted nothing but your love.

That's on you, bro.

You had a woman who didn't want your money, your status, or your possessions.
She just wanted you.
The real you.

And you couldn't even give her that.

Don't mess up the next one.
If you're lucky enough to find another woman like that, treat her right.

Because women like that don't stay available for long.

[Jenii-Leigh @Jen_y_ifer]

It’s 4:12am, this is rediculous

[Jenii-Leigh @Jen_y_ifer]

Sleeping pills ain’t even knocking me out tonight! Lordy lord 😭

[Maryam @hell_line0]

Fellas, if she's telling you the little things that upset her, that's her trying to save the relationship. Pay attention.

[Jenii-Leigh @Jen_y_ifer]

Insomnia is too much 😢

[Libriscent @libriscent]

I don’t think Men understand how much they’re supposed to set the tone. What you pour into your woman she’ll pour out. How she treats you will strictly come from how you treat her! Men have all these standards for a woman but doing bare minimum for her and I’m not just talking about financially ! I’m talking mentally , physically , emotionally and spiritually! Most of the time her mood is based off the mans energy and his mood ! If you have a good woman , pour into her , put her first , listen to her , communicate with her , and never play about her . I Guarantee you you’ll get all of that in return plus more from a real woman .