That guy is even 40 & she’s 25, the age dynamic is even sus.
A 25yrs is still at a very different stage of adulthood from a 40yrs. A 15-year age gap means something very different at 25 than it does at 35 or 40.
Before you come argue about your pedo forefathers, this is 2026.
You know those events you go to and everything is disorganized? And you are just wondering who organized such a useless event? Those events are planned by people who use their inside voice and want to be seen as nice.
In fact she is even nice, the screaming you will see me do?
There’s no scenario where it makes sense to not let your friends* know that you’re getting married. None whatsoever.
However, you’re free to do whatever but be ready for the outcome of doing “whatever”
(*not loosely used)
Nope!! I need everyone to continue to enjoy her existence from a distance.
She will go there, say something some people dont like and then hatred will start. "OH I dont know thatx's what she thinks about xyz/I cant believe she said that".