I’ll keep trying because I’d really hate to lose this page. If I can’t recover it, I might have to create a new account. I’ll miss this space so much. Hopefully I find my way back here🤍
Not sure if this will be my last tweet here. I’m switching phones and I’ve been having issues recovering my password. I’ve tried a few times already but no luck yet.
For me, one of the greatest cheat codes in life is to never get offended. Train yourself to have a thick skin. Don't take things personally. Let others disagree with you.. Want more peace? Avoid getting offended.
For far too long have women been celebrated for their “strength”. My own IWD message is to lazy women, women who do not fit the regular standard of who or what women should be. You matter. Happy IWD to you 🥳.
So God has been in existence from the beginning and only white people knew about him until 400 years ago that he decided to send middlemen from Europe to come tell us about his existence?
Sound like a moonlight story.
There’s a reason why childhood indoctrination is such a big deal in religion. It’s what keeps it alive.
As we grow, common sense kicks in and we can spot inconsistencies, contradictory, myths, straight up lies, politics and all of that.
But that early brainwashing has ready built a psychology that resists reality. So we just stay there anyways.
@ladenlade You're betting that this person will continue to choose you, grow with you, meet your needs, respect your boundaries, for decades. And if they don't? You're the one expected to adapt. To compromise. To make it work.
That's not partnership. That's a slow erosion of self.
@ladenlade To work on it. To be patient. To give it time.
But patience isn't the same as self-respect. And staying isn't the same as strength.
As a woman, marriage feels like a risky gamble where the odds are rarely in your favor.