my mom says “If a man wants the benefits of having a good woman without the responsibility of being a good man. That’s not a partner. That’s a parasite.”
In relationships women are reciprocators, not initiators. You lead, she follows. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirrors it. That’s the only way it works.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control