A frustrated Nigerian man who once collected a smartphone to campaign for Bola Tinubu has fired back at the APC and the Tinubu administration. The man had a lot to say. 👀
“Beauty and intelligence? That’s a rare combo worth protecting.
But let’s not rewrite history either: polygamy and cheating aren’t the same thing. One is built on declared commitments; the other is built on broken ones. The real issue isn’t the label it’s honesty.”
She said as a man you shouldn’t place your entire focus on one woman.
The mistake most men make is this: when they meet a woman, all their attention, energy and emotional investment goes into her.
It may sound romantic but trust me it’s not—it makes you look needy. And being needy k!lls attraction faster.
watch this video and share your thoughts?
💄𝗛𝗲 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗮 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆.
A man asked a woman:
"Are you ready for a serious relationship?"
Her answer wasn't about love.
It wasn't about loyalty.
It wasn't about trust.
It wasn't about communication.
Instead, she listed what he would need to pay:
• Mortgage
• Car note & insurance
• Phone bill
• Utilities & internet
• Hair, nails & lashes
• Vacations
• Gas every Sunday
• And be a father to children who aren't biologically his.
Everyone is entitled to their standards.
But if the first conversation is only about what someone must provide financially, don't be surprised when people wonder where the partnership begins.
A serious relationship isn't just about paying bills.
It's about character.
It's about loyalty.
It's about respect.
It's about shared purpose.
It's about two people bringing value and building a life together.
Provision matters.
So does peace.
So does accountability.
So does what each person brings to the table.
The strongest relationships aren't built on a list of demands.
They're built by two people committed to becoming an asset to each other's lives.
What does "serious relationship" actually mean to you?
Let's hear your definition.
C & Q ✍️🏾
𝑳𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒏’𝒕 𝒃𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒌 𝒖𝒔 - 𝒊𝒕 𝒕𝒂𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒖𝒔. 𝑮𝒖𝒂𝒓𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒊𝒍𝒚.
“I have never seen any divorced woman that has come out to tell us their mistakes that led to their failed marriage, every time, na the man no good. Come out and say the truth”
- Lady says
Some people say marriage is a partnership, but expect the financial part to be a solo performance.
A better foundation is simple: discuss expectations before the wedding, agree on what works for both of you, and don’t mistake assumptions for love.
Compatibility isn’t just about chemistry it’s about shared responsibility. Funny enough, many divorces start where honest conversations never did.
I get where you’re coming from. Experiences like that can seriously shake someone’s trust. But one person’s choices shouldn’t become everyone else’s reputation. If betrayal keeps repeating in your life, the real lesson might be to raise your standards, not lower your faith in people.
These days, marriage feels less like finding someone ‘perfect’ and more like finding someone whose character still holds when nobody is watching. That’s far rarer than any label.”
Imagine a broke woman who was raised from a poor home whom you met a non virgin demanding for a 50 million naira wedding whereas she can't contribute a dime to it?
So as a man, you have to hustle 100 times more than our forefathers did just to settle for a woman 100 times worse than our foremothers were?
You might hate the average Nigerian woman mindset but you have to respect how high they think of themselves. You can't also blame them because their mindset was enabled by the same Nigerian men complaining about their stupidity.
At the end of the day, the choice is left for you to settle for a virgin who's from a financially stable home and can equally bring something tangible to the table or settle for a non virgin who was raised from a poor home who won't only watch you drain yourself with financial responsibility but end up giving you another man's child to raise.
The choice is yours!