The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.
Pay down all my credit card debt, moved my next few months life expenses into a high yield savings account, and cut a bunch of subscriptions.
One thing I’ve learned during times of u certainty and being involved in the market is to learn when to be less aggressive & more patient.
Never know how long things will be in the air how it is now. Best thing to do is cut off any debt with high interest, reserve capital that can grow, and keep capital on the sides for dollar cost averaging or big buys at major support zones.