There’s blessing in the set back, in the pain, in the rejection, in the failure, in the betrayal... Everything that feels like a curse is actually a blessing…. He shall restore in tenfolds… (Joel 2:25)… #dolifewithChrist
Until the newness fades and their avoidance is activated again. Even if it looks like they’re more open with the new person. Even if it looks like they suddenly know how to communicate. It’s not real change. It’s the honeymoon phase. And you went through it too.
You’ll never heal if you keep romanticising the person who hurt you. Bc ppl don’t change just bc they find someone new. They continue to do what they’ve always done until someone asks for more. That avoidant ex you couldn’t get close to, is still avoidant. Let me explain.
Feeling guilty about a past mistake or pain?👇🏾
He will restore you because of who He is, not because of who you are.
I hope this messages speaks to you. #dolifewithChrist
Some of you genuinely want to marry women who have little or nothing going for them and hope to be the successful one so you can lord over them
The idea of your wife being just as successful or even more successful threatens some of you and it shows
All the best to y’all sha
Feeling burnt out? Feeling defeated, helpless or trapped?…. A reminder, “For in Him we live, we move and For in Him we have our being…” (Acts 17:28) ….. Get someone to talk to and don’t forget, #dolifewithChrist
Psalm 30:5, "For his anger is but for a moment, and his favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning."
Micah 7:7, “But as for me, I watch in hope for the LORD, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me”
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And by the time guys are getting married, they have left a trail of scarred hearts. Dear Christian young men, act like men and do all in love (1 Corinth 16:13)
Manje, there is a breed of young men who have the spirit of hovering without stating intentions, of “maybe” and “I am finding myself”. Hence, the spirit of “its complicated” has become the new normal.
There was a time when young men pursued young women with every ounce of skill and every weapon in their arsenal. They were diligent and direct. They were clear about their intentions and weary of others making a move before them. In many ways, that’s part of biblical manhood.