“Coparenting takes real maturity, and at some point you have to face the truth: even if you don’t like the mother of your child, you still owe her respect because you owe that baby stability. You still have to speak to her, deal with her, and show up without the attitude or the victim role you hide behind. You put her through a lot acknowledge it. Stop acting like her pain doesn’t exist, stop pretending you can raise a child without communicating with the woman who carried that baby, and stop choosing pride over responsibility. Respect her motherhood, respect her effort, respect the fact that she’s doing it every day. Because that child is a baby who needs both parents to grow up, communicate, and coparent like adults, not enemies.”
Imagine having multiple baby fathers and none of them are there for your children… and it’s all their fault, every single time. 🤔
But the truth is — if the pattern keeps repeating, it’s not them. It’s not the fathers. It’s YOU and YOUR choices. #babymamadrama
Too many adults really do internalize that a child who is not performing obedience thinks they are the adult's peer. Why are you that insecure or egotistical or etc? What's going on?