Becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth & decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you’ll damage your mind, body & spirit
so far in my 20s, the best lesson i ever learned was that life will go on. People come and go, we lose friends, break up with lovers, meet new people, encounter success and failure and life will go on. You will be alright.
ONAL ISSUE YOU have. I can’t let ppl interfere with my peace, that’s why I never cared about telling my side of any story, time will. Life is short, and I’m living mine to the fullest, with no regrets, no drama, and no negativity. The only thing you’re gon-
One thing about me, I know how to be cordial with EVERYBODY. I can know you don’t like me, in competition w/me, talk about me, envy me, judge me, and hate on me. I’m STILL gonna smile,speak, and maybe even hold a conversation with you, because at the end of the day that’s a PERS-
You can literally feel in your soul when it’s TIME .. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point you’ll just know..
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, I hope you understand how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people, no matter how bad they clearly are for me. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bc you pushed me far past my limits.
The older you get, the more you realize you don't want to be around drama, stress or conflict. You just want a calm cozy home, good food on your table, and to be surrounded by your favourite people.