PSA:
There is no reason to control your significant other. Let them do what they wanna do so you can see what theyโd rather do. What they do will show how much respect they have for you
my friend was with her bf for 7 years and he never took her serious or wanted to take the next step so they split up and 6 months later she found the love of her life and a year later they got married. time together doesnโt matter when you found the right one