Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.
Yollie wangena ephapha emshadweni esanganiswa ukuthi usayitshitshi when the signs were there that Mpilo didn't like her. Now she's like every other his baby mamas she looked down on. You rush in, you rush out.
You gotta learn how to like a man without making him the center of your universe. Go about your day, make your money, look good, and enjoy your life. If he calls, cool. If he doesn’t, cool then. I refuse to let somebody's inconsistent attention control my whole mood.