Recognize His goodness in your life. Remember how He led you through the desert, how you met that person, how He brought you out of that problem, how He opened that door. It wasn’t a lucky break; it was the Lord your God.
If your woman gotta be an investigator to be with you, do better. She should be too busy learning from you, relaxing with you, or being loved by you to have room for suspicion that there’s anything to investigate about you.