People think being strong means putting people in their place and not taking shit. But some of the strongest people I know practice forgiveness, give others the benefit of the doubt and arenât scared to give second chances.
I got a lot happier and experienced a lot more success once I stopped waiting for other people to create opportunities for me and started creating them for myself.
Unpopular opinion: itâs wild that coaches expect potential clients who will literally need to overhaul their entire lifestyle in order to be successful be âmotivatedâ and â100% committed.â
If they were 100% motivated and committed they wouldnât need you.
Do you really need to âget organized first?â
OR, are you stalling on making that big leap in your business because you know when you invest big, youâre gonna be ON THE HOOK BIG?
Iâve posted 4710 photos on Instagram since 2012. Thatâs an average of 362 posts per year.
Folks wondering âwhen is it gonna happen for me?! Iâve been posting for months!â are missing the fact that itâs *already* happening and the reps donât ever end.
I donât know one successful online business owner who thinks of their content creation as a destination.
Ok itâs not super helpful to tell women who are experiencing perimenopause/menopausal weight gain that theyâre just eating too many calories.
While for some it may even be true ⊠itâs still such an incomplete soundbite with zero context or empathy. And itâs definitely not coaching.
Some people stay clinical, believe in possibility and work hard to make things happen.
Other people spend their energy arguing about why it won't work.
If you want to work with someone because you believe they have the playbook you need, instead of scoffing at their prices or immediately saying, âI donât have the moneyâ ⊠try on alternatives like:
âI need to learn how she can charge that
âI need to learn what she knows
âHow can I make the money I need?
âWho do I need to become to be someone who invests that much?
Iâm grateful every day my first mentor put a price point in front of me that challenged my beliefs, and forced me to get resourceful.
My first big biz investment was $10k.
And I didnât have the money. Didnât even have a credit card with a $10k limit.
But all I could think was, if this woman can charge $10k to work with her, I HAVE TO FIGURE OUT HOW SHE DOES IT.
I launched a new program to my small list of personal contacts on Hotmail lol, with a PDF FLYER, got 14 people to invest $100/mth for a year for my first mentorship.
I made $17k and paid my coach. AND those 14 ladies got everything! Iâm still working with some of them today!