Staying is not the soft, romantic ending people pretend it is.
Itโs choosing someone every day while the world (and sometimes their own mind) keeps asking them to leave.
Thatโs not just hard.
Thatโs rare.
And it deserves more honesty than slogans.
When a partner has to hold space for a body that doesnโt always feel like home, for dysphoria that can turn intimacy into a minefield, for the constant external noise that treats your relationship like a political statement instead of two people trying to love each other.
Finding love as a transgender person is already an uphill battle.
The rejection, the confusion, the fear of being seen as โtoo muchโ or โnot enough.โ
But the real test comes after someone stays.
Daddy where are you currently? You really make me cry everyday not hearing from you and knowing you're ill please talk to me my love don't ghost me it breaks me sincerely. @Woody556410