A man will hardly finish voicing his complaints in the dating scene before you find a swathe of men rushing to tell him, “Go for a woman that loves you.”
It’s like this advice has become the fix-all plaster for all the problems men will ever encounter with women, like “love” confers on someone a capacity that their cultivated character does not.
Worse part is no one loves this “advice” as much as women.
Nothing helps them evade accountability quite like it.
Or you may not. You should also be willing to hold the possibility that you may not and still be committed to living a full, meaningful life regardless.
It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you can’t afford to lose access, help, or opportunities.
It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes.
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