When God promotes you, gives you more influence, you have to get good at dodging spears. Someone throws an insult, dodge it. Someone throws jealousy, tries to make you look bad, dodge it. Someone throws criticism, says things that aren’t true, dodge it. The persecution is a sign that people can see the favor on your life.
Never judge or blame someone for being unemployed or unmarried. Life unfolds differently for everyone, and people face circumstances and battles you may never understand. Everyone has their own journey, timing and struggles. Be kind!
Nimeingia talking stage na Strathmore baddie kazi ni kunipea novels hapa na kila jioni anataka nimpigie story ya chapter nimesoma😂😂what did I get myself into😂
It’s important to have at least one friend who isn’t friends with any of your other friends. Someone who exists in a completely different part of your life
Being observant is a blessing until you notice the little disrespect people hide behind jokes, compliments and fake concern. Then you have to decide whether to address it or simply adjust how close you let them get.
I’m learning to pay attention to the way someone talks about people who aren't there. You learn a lot about someone's character from conversations where the person being discussed can't defend themselves.
Some people clock in every day with an attitude, gossip in every department, throw colleagues under the bus, bully juniors, and do the bare minimum. Then walk around like they're the reason the organization is still functioning. Please.
A girl on TikToķ once said; "You cannot take things personally at work. What you don’t realize for some people that job is all they have. They only have authority at work and the office is the only place people listen to them. That’s why they want to have two hr meetings, work on their days off and on weekends, and they don't understand why you don't want to." & to be honest…Some people really do make work their entire personality.
Some people will deliberately misinterpret what you say, twist your intentions and wait for you to lose your temper. I’m learning to recognize when explaining myself has become a game I never agreed to play.
There’s a difference between someone challenging your point and someone deliberately trying to get under your skin. Learning to tell the difference saves you a lot of energy.
I’m okay with being corrected, questioned or disagreed with. I just don’t want to participate in arguments where the only goal is to make someone feel small.