I told my only (at the time) in person queer-related friend I wanted to just come out about something to the friend group to get it over with. he proceeded to stand up mid-lunch and announce "Josie has something to say" and sat back down
Legit - first person I came out to was my gf at the time. I told her "I need to tell you something" and then it took me half an hour to say another word. Mustering the courage to say it out loud took every ounce of determination I had
And they're all like, obsessed with posting transition timelines and tbh I think that'd what I'm really malding about. AI porn is a universal issue, but sharing a transition timeline is such a personal and intimate thing for a trans person to share and I hate it being abused