in real life its creepy to talk in high level abstractions too much. you have to periodically return to the most mundane & concrete subjects, or it starts getting creepy really fast. this is for a good reason,
You gotta maintain a lightness to your heart because turning into a bitter loser obsessed with how people have done you wrong is the most off-putting and unrewarding way a person can choose to be
Part of living in nyc is constantly seeing the most traumatizing shit of your life and then having to immediately move on with your day like it never happened