“Every Nigerian is important to us, this flood is in Nigeria, no matter the state you’re coming from we will look after you”
Peter Gregory OBI, NDC Presidential candidate addressing victims of flood from Kogi State who came to seek refuge in Anambra state during his time as the state governor.
So I went on Nairaland.
I searched “Tinubu”. I also searched “Obi”.
Since they were both governors. I wanted to see Media footprint of who they were and what they represented Pre-2022.
Here is a screenshot. First 2 is for Tinubu. Last 2 is for Peter Obi.
Jan 26/2027. You’ll have to choose 1 of these 2 to lead Nigeria.
Who are you choosing?!
I heard Peter Obi draws no payment as former governor of Anambra State. This is clearly not about his candidacy or anything - I don’t want my trolls agreeing with me - but how many former governors can make this same claim? How many would like to join him on this stand?
The choice has always been simple but most people live in denial and are delusional.
If you marry a career woman, she cannot do most of what a housewife does. Example: (Madam NOI)
If you marry a housewife, she cannot do what a career woman does.
If you marry a career big bussinessman, he cannot do what a regular husband does. Example: (Tony Elumelu)
If you marry a regular man, he cannot have the status of a career husband.
A career woman cannot cook for you every day. She cannot prepare breakfast for you. She cannot wash your clothes and clean your house all the time. It’s not that she doesn’t want to do so but because of lack of time. She’s not the wife you can call to quickly rush to the kitchen and prepare Bitterleaf Soup for you. As virtuous as mummy Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, she won’t even be able to do that for her husband.
A busy business or career man will not be able to sleep and wake up with you every morning. He won’t be at home seven days a week. He won’t remember to send you those early morning messages. He won’t respond to your message and calls as fast as you want it sometimes. You will constantly see him among other powerful, influential, and more beautiful women. This does not mean he doesn’t love or care about you, it’s just that those are the consequences of the path he has chosen for himself.
Imagine PO for example. You can’t imagine a man like that who is everywhere everyday to sleep and wake up on the same bed with his wife. But the impossibility of doing this does not mean he doesn’t love the wife.
A housewife won’t command the kind of grace and presence a career woman does.
A regular husband won’t be on TV and papers with powerful people as a big business or career man would be.
So, each has something they can’t give you. It’s your responsibility to decide what best suits you. You must sacrifice something.
It will become a problem when you start expecting an Eagle to fly like a fowl or a fowl to command the grace and power of an Eagle.
When you put all of these together, you would realize why most families employ other hands to assist; a chef, a cleaner, a driver, etc.
Don’t come to social media with your illogical big head and be shouting “My wife must do this and do that.” Or “My husband must be this and be that.” Sit your ass down and decide the kind of person you want to marry and what you would be willing to sacrifice. You can’t have it all.
KAA
Host of KaaTruths Podcast.