Women, let me tell you something most of you do not know.
Men feel good when they provide for their women and kids. It gives them purpose. It makes them proud.
A real man wants to carry the home. The problem starts when he is sacrificing himself every day and getting no appreciation or respect in return.
He works hard, pays all the bills. He holds the family together. Then he comes home to complaints, noise, and a woman who acts like everything he does is normal. That is how a provider becomes tired. That is how most men turn cold.
Respect that responsible man. Appreciate the sacrifice. If you treat his provision like a duty and look down on him, you will slowly kill his urge to provide.
Cheating gets called betrayal. Fine. But deliberately withholding sex, affection and intimacy to punish your partner is betrayal too. You are basically saying, “I know what you need, and I’m going to use it against you.”
As a Wife, If a man flirts with you knowing you have a Husband, that is not a compliment. He is not seeing a great woman. He is seeing weak boundaries.
He is not thinking, "She is special." He is thinking, "She can be taken."
And the moment you entertain that attention, you are proving how easy it is to disrespect your Marriage.
A man who openly crosses that line does not respect your Husband, But worse than that he does not respect you either.👂🏿🤌🏿
She won’t change because you asked. She’ll change when she meets a man she’s scared to lose. If she’s still playing games with you, you’re not that man. Stop auditioning for a role she already decided you don’t fit.
I’m gonna piss off a lot of people saying this but If a man pays child support, and later find out that the child isn't even his, the mother should have to pay all of it back