🚩 Things People Ignore at the Beginning of a Relationship That Usually End It Later
Poor communication
Lack of accountability
Different life goals
Disrespect disguised as jokes
Emotional unavailability
Which one have you experienced?
If a lady is so feminine & naive, a guy might avoid dating her for fear of ruining her feminine grace which hitherto is unpolluted by the world.
On the contrary,
Women never think of nice/naive guys this way.
Even when she knows she can't date him. She never shirks from baiting him. From friendzoning him. From milking him dry.
She needs nice guys validation badly. Their provision terribly. She sees them as meals to feasted on.
For women, it's normal to play/hurt nice guys.
Two lessons to pick from here:
• Men are wired to think about a woman's safety, care & comfort. Whereas women are never wired to think about a man's safety, care or comfort.
• Men are more honourable than women. The worst of men will treat a naive lady better than the best of women will treat a nice guy.
-Bambulu
@DatingSenseii She finds reasons to talk to you, even when she has nothing important to say.
The conversation ended 20 minutes ago, but somehow she sends a message to you. "ONE MORE THING..." 😅
Most people don't fall in love with a person.
They fall in love with the version of that person they created in their head.
That's why reality hits so hard when the honeymoon phase ends. 💭
@Masc_Empire We accelerate our decipline with momentum here.
I drive pride growth in in my growth and take repsponsible risks.
Saying no to addiction and all it takes to recover.
There’s a WEAK BOY inside you.
He tells you:
To watch porn.
Life has no meaning.
To settle for mediocrity.
To simp for women.
To take no risks.
In order to live a fulfilling life, you must eliminate these thoughts.
Remember is all in your head.
SEE YOU AT THE TOP.
Marriage isn’t rehab.
You’re not her glow-up project at 30+.
Her habits are set. Her trauma is packed.
Virgins build with you. Old women build without you.
Vet or regret
@thedimitri Using sex as a weapon is unhealthy.
Using cheating as a solution is worse.
A healthy marriage needs communication, not punishment from either side.
A sexless marriage can create deep frustration, resentment, and loneliness.
@mentormqsculus 😂 Funny how some men say this, yet the women they admire, marry, and call their mothers were all someone's daughters first.
Maybe daughters aren't the problem.
As a relationship , I once met a newly married couple who were already considering divorce.
The issue wasn't cheating, finances, or in-laws.
It was children.
The husband wanted at least one child. The wife didn't want children at all and preferred adoption instead.