I dated a billionaire’s daughter, the absolute expectation is to continue the princess treatment while they continue to girlboss.
Every single one of her expenses was paid. Her income went straight to retirement funds. She actually didn’t even know how much she made from her job.
After several months of dating I looked to downshift some of the glitzier stuff we did for home cooking and financial prudence and she left.
Honestly, bullet dodged. Very emotionally and financially taxing. Don’t expect to get treated with daddy’s money if you date a rich girl, they see it as theirs.
I hate to break it to you - but the United States is an absolute, incoherent shitshow.
The idea that we have ‘representative government’ is ridiculous. If that were true we would not have wasted billions killing Iranians for no reason at all. Some people wanted this - but the voters who elected this government did not.
Let’s go further. When Trump goes to China - he brings our ‘great billionaires’ with him. I can’t think of any more obvious symbol that we live in an oligarchy that does everything it can to manipulate outcomes - and that voting is a bit of a joke. It’s like he’s bringing with him ‘the ruling elite.’ Because that is what he did.
We have at least 40 million illegal aliens living here. Our business ‘leaders’ engineered this by bribing politicians to keep the border open - because they wanted to pay low wages and make mucho $$ for themselves. When people objected because their incomes were falling - the business leaders accused them of racism and funded Barack Obama to become POTUS.
The USA is $40 trillion in debt - and no one has a plan to solve that problem. Absolutely no one. This will blow up one day - and it will destroy normal people who save in dollars - because the unspoken plan is to destroy the currency and save the rich and destroy the rest. But people who own our homes - like Blackstone or Blackrock - won’t care because their assets will follow inflation. Everyone else will be reduced to paupers renting from them - their bank accounts gone.
The United States today is hopelessly dysfunctional. It lacks a coherent population that can even agree on anything. It is bankrupt - but the rest of the world is propping it up because they are also scared of what happens when the dollar collapses. It doesn’t have any smart leaders - and we have to watch insiders doing oil trades to make $$ on the Iran war - and the administration itself sells shit coins. Our foreign policy is a total joke - not strategic in any way at all. It is driven by special interests, and then not even followed through. And people are actuality making money on it - pump and dump coming straight from the White House.
This is a hell of a way to celebrate 250 Years! At least we can have a cage match on the White House lawn that degrades our entire history and underscores just how bad and ridiculous things are!
Thank you for your attention to this matter! Enjoy the circus! If you’re lucky you will be dead when the music stops!
Problem is most women don’t know what they want or need, so us men have to build an intuition that really only comes from experience. She will feel something is “missing” and leave a perfectly normal relationship to go find it. So most men don’t put any stock in what women say they want. All that matters is behaviors and patterns.
They crazy ex phenomena doesn’t come from a lack of communication, it’s a mismatch between that communication and actions/behaviors which is gaslighting or even weaponizing sex
I find this incredibly accurate. I’ve never been interested in dating someone I didn’t believe to have a beauty or character risking personal embarrassment for or “conquest” if you will. We all want what is hard to get.
However, women can absolutely pursue a man but not in the way a man pursues a woman and I feel that this is where the trip-up for mid women is.
If a mid-woman wants to pursue a very attractive guy then she has to be unique and helpful. Offering him more sex to a guy who can get laid anywhere is not going to get him to commit.
What does is being helpful, kind, supportive, and nurturing. If he doesn’t reciprocate after two weeks then move on so not to waste your time.
Offering a drowning man water is pointless
@jess_ann_pin Well that makes sense. If he could really see himself falling for you then he would want to protect himself via saying no to a FWB, fairly rare man these days.
Plenty of those women liked me too! I’m not anti-charming! Many women came and went and were happy for the ride but didn’t see us going anywhere long term. Simply the reality of being attractive on a dating app. Today, I wouldn’t swipe right on someone i didn’t think I could spend some money on getting to know. I don’t message women on Hinge and ask if they want to come over without having their number and IG, that’s what 10 years in this market will do to you. It’s not worth it anymore when you have a good career and reputation to risk it on a hookup and getting blasted on the Tea App or wherever.
My hookup days from apps are long over
@jess_ann_pin Proves my point? I’m sure in another life Jessica we would have matched and let this exact scenario play out. Many such cases from my past life.
@jess_ann_pin If a tinder match is coming over at 10pm because I asked and forgoing requesting a date that’s on her. No woman seriously thinks a booty call is an effort at a step towards a serious relationship.
Yeah it’s shitty to half-commit and love bomb. I don’t do that. I told anyone I’ve ever been with seriously that if at any point I’m not their person to let me know and leave. A breakup is 10min or less.
I’m sure most men don’t do this since their access to an eligible pool of bachelorettes is limited so they love bomb and pull out manipulation to hold on.
Ironically being a successful bachelor requires you intuit women well and communicate with them appropriately.
Most men would rather women end things than themselves.
What? Being a valuable commodity makes me a bad guy? Hoeflation exists because of women trying to compete for attention from higher-status guys and in college an athlete is a higher-status guy. I had options don’t hate me for exercising them.
Incels exist because they are men who don’t take accountability for their lack of access to the dating market because they choose to be fat and unattractive both financially and physically.
Incels being in 0 demand has lowered the supply of eligible bachelors thus women increasing their marketing of themselves to the eligible bachelors. It’s simply economics. More men taking accountability for their shitty lives would fix this.
Men date in college to get exclusive or recurring sexual access and many men will forego mid sex to date a woman they perceive as higher value than their roster. That can turn into a full relationship and perhaps even marriage.
If a man doesn’t care about retaining exclusive access he’s going to have sex with you then not going to schedule a follow up date.
I dated women I hooked up with because the sex was awesome and I’d prefer 2nds and 3rds and move to investing more in keeping her coming back.
Other women not so much.
I believe the evolutionary psychology says the more sex you have with 1 woman the more likely a kid is to get conceived which boosts the man and woman’s bonding capability. 1 time is not enough seriously for that to happen.
@hashjenni What really upsets women more is seeing men happy without being in a relationship or married. That ruins all the happiness in the moment of their singleness.