I’m usually the person that tries to fix bonds and friendships, but lately I’ve been letting people stand on how they feel. We never have to talk again. That’s perfectly fine by me.
Very little surprises me nowadays😅🤧I'm just genuinely out here minding my own business,tended to others for way too long😌people must dala what they must ngeke phela.
I recently cut off a friend of more than 10 years. Watching him try to reach out to me and me ignoring his calls or messages makes me sad shame.
But fuseg ❤️🙏
...at this point,to not know what's going with yourself seems like a hard "L"😒no actually it is,because what do you mean,you don't know what's happening in your own life🤔🤔then again,ayi let me rest&not be that person.
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
....whatever that dream was about,it really had me some type of way afterwards😔🤧lapho I don't even dwell on these things like that,but that one ,was waaaay too real ngeke😒can't even laugh it off ,like I usually do with most things,but ke we move🙏