i know this is a wild thing to say but this video is a great portrayal of how misogyny doesnt let women be anything. the men get to be goofy and badly animated and show accurate but the woman has to be sexualized and have stricter animation
If you dont support trans people who dont pass you dont support trans people.
If you use a trans person's bad actions to misgender then you dont support trans people.
Trans people dont owe you anything for you to respect them regardless of who they are.