@kathleenogrady @camisa10 Deepest condolences. I've been through exactly that. It's hell. But hold your children close - you will see him live on through them, for the rest of your life. I am so sorry.
He is a baby. How many of us stuck a treat in our pockets when we were kids? I remember my friend's mother made her take it back and apologize. That is how we teach our children. This is violence.