Both genders put themselves first and can be very self centered, generally most people are self centered, if you don't learn to choose, love and put yourself first, people will teach you a hard lesson.
I have said it countless times, and I’ll continue to say it for those who care to listen. I like women a lot. You may not understand the depth to which I like them, but every chance I get, I’ll continue to list reasons why.
Today, I like women because of how ruthless they are when it comes to choosing themselves. Women put themselves first, unapologetically. They are insensitive in situations that require empathy, privacy, or genuine respect for the person affected.
Last year, a guy replied to a tweet in which he said he broke up with his then-girlfriend because she has PCOS, and hell broke loose on this app. Women called him a misogynist, an incel, and every sort of demeaning and disgusting name for his CHOICE.
To make it worse, there were also men who tried to make him feel bad, gaslight him, and insult him for that same CHOICE. That tweet has over 5 million impressions because they kept dragging him for that single CHOICE.
Go through the comments and quotes on this tweet: it is filled with “valid” from women especially, and they don’t see anything wrong with it. In fact, I respect that about them, because, just like I said earlier, I like women a lot. And one of the things I like about them is how unapologetically ruthless they are when making decisions, especially regarding men and dating.
There’s no scenario where a woman wouldn’t put herself first. Whether it hurts you or not is irrelevant. Men should learn from them.
Your in-laws not liking you can be overcome if they are not diabolic and wicked. Before making mouth it only takes you and your partner for the marriage to work, first check if they are diabolic or not. Also make sure ur partner is not easily swayed.
@i_am_dimmygee A man told the whole community and even chase her out the the house only to eventually settle and take her back. Make I hear say men nor dy take cheating women back
I used to think so too, until I saw how differently a man treats the children of the woman he loves and those of the woman he doesn’t.
It’s never the same! If you choose a good husband , you’ve picked a good father.
Marriage no dey benefit una, but when una wife die, e no go reach one year sef, una don run go remarry, as e no dey beneficial why you no remain single???
Whereas a woman can stay her whole life, without getting married and still be alright.