I heard someone say, satan got adam and eve to fix their eyes on one tree when god had already given them an entire garden, think about that. The enemy didn't have to convince them that they had nothing. He just had to make them forget everything that they already had. And he still, till this day, uses the same strategy. He gets us to focus on relationships we don't have, the job that we don't have, the opportunity we don't have, the healing we haven't seen yet. Meanwhile, we are blind to the countless prayers god has already answered. Gratitude isn't pretending you don't want more, it's refusing to let what you don't have make you forget the goodness of god that's already surrounding you.
You'll regret it if you get married, you'll regret it if you don't get married. You'll regret it if you have kids and you'll regret it if you don't. Kierkegaard said this 200 years ago as follows - whatever you choose, you'll regret it, because the problem isn't in your choices, it's in romanticizing your life. A person always finds an untravelled path alluring and mysterious. That's why the issue isn't making the right choice. It's choosing and deciding which regret you'll live with. In life, we must choose our regret.
now read carefully;
a rat fell into a container of rice. the exit was wide open above him and within reach but he had everything he needed so he never jumped.
days passed, the rice slowly disappeared and as it did, he sank deeper. by the time it was all gone, the exit was too far away. he was fat and had no strength left to reach it. he didn't die from hunger. he died from never leaving. psychologists call this the comfort zone paralysis.
you have a salary but no growth. a relationship but no happiness. friendships but no purpose. everything feels safe but you are slowly sinking. the exit is still open. don't wait until the rice runs out.
Underrated life advice: Become generous with your assumptions. Assume they were tired, not rude. Overwhelmed, not careless. Preoccupied, not distant. This doesn’t mean tolerate disrespect. It means stop turning every small moment into a personal attack. Grace makes life lighter.
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
God saw me rushing everything in life, with my own plans. So he humbled me by not having the results that I want. Instead, he made me start over again. But this time, I am trusting his plans over mine, and I've never been more at peace.
read more books. read to escape reality. read to understand reality. read to challenge what you believe. read to think better. read to write better. read to argue better. read to know yourself. read to build something. a single book can completely rewire your brain.
@magattew Exactly. The West should stop treating Africa like it desperately needs their help. This is patronizing nonsense.
Frankly, my observation is that the average happiness in a village in Africa is higher than the average happiness in Beverly Hills!
Underrated life advice: Have more hobbies and fewer opinions. Learn an instrument. Plant a garden. Build something with your hands. Cook. Paint. Run. The happiest people I know spend less time debating life and more time actually living it.
I read it somewhere "We romanticized the wrong organ the stomach is more emotional than the heart" and it feels so true. We feel butterflies in our stomach and when we're sad we lose our appetite our stomach gets affected by emotions way more than we realize.
This is from Van Gogh :
“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning”.
please stay with me while i break this down.🙏
Jason statham? there’s 99% chance of him turning it into a car chase that totals 12 Lamborghinis. your son’s rescue mission becomes fast & furious17 collateral damage budget becomes higher than your house.😂 let’s not forget how bad our roads are🥲
Denzel washington He’s going to take 30 minutes to explain life lessons to your son during the rescue. “boy, you need to understand that pain is just weakness leaving the body.” fulani herdsmen would have beheaded him by then.
Agent 47? no long talk, the heat in nigeria will probably make him malfunction. it’s a no.
Jack bauer? he will def torture someone on live TV to find your son. your son gets rescued at 7:00am, but he has committed 4 war crimes before 7:15am 😂 you’re now on a watchlist too. let’s not forget your son will be used as bait 3 separate times. it’s a no too😂
Tom cruise?He’s going to hang off a plane then jump just to ask a guy one question. Mission budget = nasa budget😂 you don’t have money for that either. and he’s bringing a team that will all almost die for drama.
so John wick is the man for the job
why? his motive is clear, he doesn’t have time for speeches, just give him a location and when he goes there everyone dies, son comes home.
he took on the high table over a dog,now Imagine what he does for a child.
just get him a dog as payment and you’re good😂
who are you hiring if it were you?