Bc nobody wants to deal with people when they’re depressed. People will get sick of you, and quickly, and before you know it you’re losing people bc you’re ’negative’ and ‘draining’. Best kept to yourself if you can keep yourself safe.
some of you clearly haven't been in relationships with people who are extremely conflict avoidant while simultaneously keeping a mental list of every single thing you've ever "done wrong" that they unload on you the second you try to talk to them about something serious
Going through a bad breakup and I was listening to drop dead by Olivia Rodrigo finally feeling happy. I accidentally skipped it and All Too Well 10 minute version came on.
Blah, blah, blah, let me guess: you love my eyes, your mom already knows about me, your ex was crazy or cheated on you, you've never been like this with anyone else, you'd never hurt me, you're not like the others, and you've never felt this way before. Should I go on? LOL