No one is forcing you to poop your pants at a party by banning pooping your pants. You force that decision on yourself the moment you decide to eat. If you can’t close your mouth, then close your butthole, because you don’t get to poop your pants because you’re irresponsible
Hardest pill I had to swallow this year was learning that no matter how good you could be to someone, no matter how much you love them, they can & will turn their back on you & there’s absolutely nothing you can do but suck it up & keep moving forward.