Sometimes the only closure you need is knowing you had pure intentions and a genuine heart. Let them misunderstand you… Your value doesn’t decrease just because they couldn’t see it. Stop seeking explanations from people who were comfortable giving you confusion. Their silence, their distance, their disrespect… That was your answer. A person treating you like you don’t matter is the closure. Read that again.
Two givers in a relationship looks like
• He paid for her nails so she paid for his next 2 cuts
• She made the list, he bought the groceries and brought them inside, she put them away.
• She cooked, he cleaned.
• She bought him cologne so he sent her on a Spa Day
• He covered every bill so she booked the trip
• She bought him Js so he filled her tank/detailed the car.
It's not about going 50/50 on expenses. It’s about going 100/100 in life. You pour into me, I pour into you. You prioritize me, I prioritize you. It’s really that simple when you know a person has your back!
My intentions will always be pure because I have no desire to be the type of person that does people wrong. I know what it’s like to be disappointed, overlooked, and given less than what I gave. That’s exactly why I try my best to move right with people. Am I perfect? No. But I’ve never been the type to intentionally use people, mislead people, or move with bad intentions. At the end of the day, I can live with my mistakes because I know my heart was in the right place. And that’s something I’ll never change about myself.
Fellas one day you’ll probably lose some shit that you feel like makes you who you are (life is long) it’s important that you understand you still are that nigga without it.