@deactivated369 barely mentions it, but if she owned me she would already understand that the minute she mentions black, male or extortion I would say goodbye forever. at the same time this is why I am extremely cautious about my true identity because I trust nobody online.
@deactivated369 hard to answer since I have no intimate partner. I remain locked 24/7 until I meet a woman who actually wants to use that thing between my legs. for me, chastity is nothing more than a pair of underwear, something that will always be worn, And only removed if it is required.
@deactivated369 but the takeaway is that a cage has to be unlocked periodically for a hygiene perspective. many don't consider that when they talk about locking you up and throwing away the key.
@deactivated369 then again there are those who have no problems whatsoever with throwing money at somebody just to hold their key. but the reality is a cage has to be cleaned quite frequently....just saying....
@deactivated369 I would tend to disagree. I would say a person interested in Chastity should self-lock unless they are in very close proximity to their key holder. I would also caution any future chastite to fully weigh the options before engaging in any type of relationship with a pro-domme.
@RuinedByLana I totally agree. I've been in an ongoing disagreement with a mistress for the last year that wants to own me. she just cant grasp the concept of a hard limit.
@deactivated369 online mistress required U be locked when we chatted, 15+ years ago. 9 years ago another online mistress stated that to serve her meant a life in chastity with her as the keyholder. we are no longer together but I still remain locked.