Dostoyevsky: “Nunca eliminé a nadie de mi vida, todos murieron en el accidente de la confianza.”
Nietzsche: “No estoy molesto porque me hayas mentido, estoy molesto porque de ahora en adelante no podré creerte.”
Many women discover through experience that casual sex only works easily for men with high testosterone and little attachment. For them, it's just about getting off and getting out. No drama. For most women, without feelings involved, it turns into a stab at their self-esteem. Then a huge emptiness hits: "Was I used?" "Am I good for nothing?"
A woman's body releases more oxytocin during sex (the hormone that makes you want to stay close to the person). The man, in most cases, doesn't feel the same thing. He walks away calm, while she’s left with a tight chest.
It’s not whining. It’s biology. Women are wired to link sex with emotional connection. The modern idea that "everyone has sex without attachment and comes out unscathed" is a lie for almost everyone. There’s a cost. And for them, the cost is usually high.