blaming Ariana because she “left him at his lowest” perpetuates a very harmful ideal that women should stay in toxic relationships and “save” them.
when someone’s “lowest” becomes toxic and potentially harmful, you have every right to leave and the results are NOT your fault
If you’re 20 and he’s 28 yall should NOT be dating
There is a HUGE maturity gap
You need to be with someone who’s your own age mentally
(He needs to be at least 45)