MY WIFE IS A TRUE FEMINIST. For men who always want to use #money as a yardstick to determine if women are Feminists or not, I think they are getting it wrong in my humble opinion.
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Regardless of what we want to say about women and pretense.
It's not easy for women to be on this page, & be active for months an years.
Even for men too.
Because stray bullet touches everyone, including me.
But after sometime, the teachings become more familiar with you, & you may find yourself checking yourself to see if you are aligning (no matter how imperfect).
You cannot agree to everything that is being taught here, because we all have different life experiences or circumstances.
But I strongly believe that, what I have been teaching for years, serve as recipe for healthy relationships or marriage.
And to a large extent, they align with what your responsible parents or responsible elders would teach you.
They're not toxic.
They're not deceitful.
They're free.
And they frown entirely against fraud or criminality.
Most importantly, they align with God, & not religion.
Because godly people are imperfect, and religious people are hypocrites.
Over the years, we have read from persons who have met their girlfriends or boyfriends from this community.
Some are even married today.
And some that are married, have started enjoying their marriage like never before.
Some were divorced, and have found love again from this community.
And even single mothers, have found love too.
If you read the banner on my profile, you'd see that it states:
"We are a community of imperfect humans, but keeping it real".
That has always been the goal and vision.
Every other posts outside the core purpose why I am here, are necessary distractions.
Because man must not live by bread alone.
So, my sincere advise to you all (especially singles), is that you should not be discouraged or afraid to meet anyone from this community.
As long as both of are sincere with each other, you can succeed.
Just make sure that:
1) It's not a LDR
2) You as the man, is older
3) You as the man, is not a fraudster or a criminal
4) You as the woman is feminine, not greedy and not too entitled
5) You respect & honor your parents
6) You respect God
7) You as the woman, is not an unrepentant cheat
8) You as the man is not a careless cheat
9) You as the man, is not a 50/50 man
10) You as the man, is not a mummy's boy
11) You as the man, is not a bet or gambling addict
12) You as the women, is not a feminist
13) Both of you have aligned your faith, genotype and other shared values
14) If you're sexually active, make sure that you're sexually compatible
Above all, put God first, in all thy doings.
I wish you all well.
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I think this is the only account on Nigerian Twitter genuinely trying to restore sanity in our young generation.
This same account is teaching men how to invest in themselves ... so their future wives and children won’t suffer.
This same account is teaching people the true meaning of marriage.
This same account keeps reminding young men to embrace legit hustle and stay off shortcuts.
And yet, I’m still wondering why @officialEFCC and the @PoliceNG never repost messages like this.
You say you’re against fraud, but you’re scared to amplify the voice that’s actually fighting it.
It’s hard to pull Gen Z out of the addiction to quick money, but I believe the next generation will enjoy the fruit of messages like this.
Agba deserves his flowers. He’s doing what many “influencers” can’t .... building men from the ground up.
More big bum bum to the list of your sidechicks
Amen 🙌
I sincerely pray that, for every story you read here, someone's life is being touched to change for good.
Many of you are experiencing similar things in your family, & you know it.
Please read from a young lady, whose younger brother is dealing with the consequences of fraud.