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avid splatoon player (friend code: 2935-2144-3514)
i looove astronomy, rocketry and a little bit of meteorology
i js a behbeh (minor)
@LesbianBiting hoooly shit it’s still up and all he has to say is “fox news wont cover it” i genuinely guess bro, some people have 0 sense of accountability
Kirara é canonicamente uma mulher trans
Teto não tem um canon definitivo, e quando falam que ela é uma mulher trans é a Teto de Birdbrain
Petra Parker não é a mesma da série animada e sim uma releitura de como seria se Peter Parker se assumisse trans
The weirdest part is how much effort went into turning this into a video. Like they were so deeply offended at the audacity of him liking her, so annoyed that it happened she needed to mass publicly shame the behavior of... liking her
Like whipping someone back into shape. Beating them back into submission of “Friendship.” THE AUDACITY of liking me?! How awful and disgusting. I'm so sick of this disgusting, predatory behavior. DON'T YOU KNOW IM ARO?
A guy develops feelings for a girl he’s close to. She doesn’t feel the same. That happens constantly. What doesn’t have to happen is so many women treating the confessions like a crime—sharing DMs, venting or making fun of them in group chats, or making content about how gross and entitled he is for catching feelings
Falling for someone isn’t a moral failing, and it isn’t “disrespectful” just because the person is aroace. Being aroace isn’t an excuse to be a self-absorbed, nasty human being who’s disgusted at the audacity of someone growing feelings for you like it’s some predatory, rapist behavior. The ego and pride to even begin to think something like that is mind-blowing
People don’t choose who they develop feelings for. Once he knew she didn’t reciprocate and kept pushing, that becomes a problem, but you can’t blame someone for having hope that maybe there’s still a chance. The feelings aren’t a crime, and framing a confession as some predatory violation is ridiculous. He likes you—respect it. Distance if you’re not interested in him. Don’t string him along. He should distance as well, but both parties need to have respect. A simple “I don’t feel the same way, but thank you, and I think it would be best for you if we distanced” is available, then leave it at that. Him distancing is also something many men do, but they get shamed and hated for it as if they’re some greedy, awful human being for caring about their own heart. Treating them like a rapist who demands love back, when the reality so often is just them catching feelings... Publicly humiliating these guys over it is a choice, and it’s so often so disgusting and nasty
This pattern shows up a lot: long stretches of closeness that look and feel like a relationship, followed by sudden disgust the moment the guy admits he grew feelings and wants something romantic. Unrequited feelings suck. Handling them poorly and then acting outraged that the other person is hurt is worse. You don’t have to stay friends. You do have to not treat the person like shit for liking you
It sucks to lose a friendship, and we're allowed to feel that but before we demand respect, maybe we should have a little tiny ounce of it—and maybe some empathy for others—ourselves 🤏 Otherwise you just come off as a self-absorbed, heartless, narcissist
“mommy how did you meet your dad”
me (visibly uncomfortable): uhm ah
my husband: “don’t you dare”
me: eh, so, i published like a 100-page nationplay fanfic about myself getting raped by a warrior during the genocide and your da…
my husband: NO!