“This guy na mumu , e go press the money”
- those are words from a man girlfriend just moments after begging him 😂😂
If you like go fall for tears
Women don’t give a fuck
Hmmmmm.
Let me give you an unsolicited advice based on what you said here.
Be careful with how you pour out your worries or fears to your wife.
You may say she's your wife, but she's soaking them in.
Women are not as strong as you may think.
Sieve what you say to her.
Take all your problems to God when you're praying alone.
Not your wife.
She is mostly interested results, and less of the process.
I hope you understand me.
“Men are cheap”
“I can get any man”
Tell a poor man right now that you will give him 1M if he can get married within a week and watch him bring a wife home under 72hrs
Tell a poor woman same and watch her search for a husband till God knows when.
The truth is, as a woman, the only man you can get cheaply is the man that wants to sleep with you and trust me, 99% of the men gassing you in the DM are in that category. You don’t pick a man that you will marry, a man will pick you to marry you, it is now left to you to accept or not.
Let me say something.
And this is for young girls.
It's not easy to remain a virgin or stay celibate if you're not a virgin.
Because men will always chase you for sex.
And men know this.
Hence, they do not mind marrying a non-virgin woman.
However, there is one major advantage you may have if you're able to keep your virginity for your husband alone.
Because he knows your sexual history, you may not be silently judged by him in a negative way, if getting pregnant for your first child becomes prolonged in your marriage.
He would be very patient and understanding, and he may even agree that both of you should first try adoption pending when God blesses your womb.
Or he would be willing to spend heavily to make sure that both of you succeed in bringing forth a child or children.
And he won't regret it if all his monies spent didn't yield any positive result.
So, please be careful with your sexual life and avoid doing dangerous abortions that may have a lasting negative impact on your fertility health.
I know that many of you enjoy sex without condoms. But the risks of contracting damaging STDs are there.
Enjoy your preeq but protect your womb.
Improve on your personal hygiene too.
It's not easy for couples who are still TTC. If it happens that the problem is yours and your husband didn't meet you as a virgin, he may be low-key questioning your sexual history and getting frustrated as the wait stretches.
For men,
Infertility isn't only a women problem.
These days, young men are experiencing low sperm counts due to unhealthy lifestyles.
Please ensure that you go get tested before you marry a wife.
So that you don't frustrate your wife.
Because most of the time, the society always assumes that the problem is from the woman.
End.
“You go think say you don hold man until you disrespect am”
— A Nigerian lady shares her opinion on relationships, emphasizing that love lasts longer when both partners maintain mutual respect. According to her, no matter how much affection exists, constant disrespect can gradually destroy even the strongest relationship. ❤️🫶🏽
Unfortunately, no.
Women do not learn from other people's experiences, they learn from their own miseries.
One woman's mistakes doesn't discourage another woman.
As long as it concerns satisfying her feelings, that's all that matter.
A woman's greatest enemy is her feelings.
It's why a woman, after knowing that another woman had divorced her husband because of extreme domestic violence, would still go ahead to get married to the divorced man.
And a man, after knowing that a man had divorced his wife because she was unfaithful, won't marry the divorced woman.
For women, it's all about their feelings. They take the lessons before weighing the risks.
For men, it's all about their minds and other people's experiences. They weigh the risks before taking the lessons.
End.
As humans, we are all fucking each other.
The girlfriend you're fucking, has been fucked by another man.
The boyfriend that you're fucking, has been fucked by another woman.
The wife that you married, was once fucked by another man or men or is currently being fucked by another man, whilst married to you.
The husband that you're married to, has once fucked other women, or currently fucking other women.
Fucking is like a handshake.
We give strangers handshakes on a daily, without mostly knowing their history or secrets.
But we do it regardless, out of respect, politeness and courtesy.
End.
“You can’t be rich and still be trying to find out if a woman truly loves you. Be broke first. Women don’t love men; only men love,” a Nigerian man argues.
Dear young men,
It would be better for you to accept that your girlfriend is cheating on you, and that you haven't caught her yet, than to brag that she's not cheating on you because you haven't caught her yet..
So that if you catch her, you'll no longer be a blind boyfriend.
A blind boyfriend is a good boyfriend.
End.