Josh | J.S. Ibitoye

Author of The Sentence You Choose & Hard to Dismiss. Short video lessons on communication, boundaries & career growth. Java developer | Cybersecurity.

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START HERE: short book lessons

The Sentence You Choose
Intro https://t.co/sGUVXToNxc
Ch.1, Part 1 https://t.co/UUe0sRurie
Ch.1, Part 2 https://t.co/H84vbxkF5a
Ch.2 https://t.co/lup7kdwXVT

Hard to Dismiss
Intro https://t.co/xX2blB1jLR

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You do the hard work. Someone else gets the credit.

Josh starts with a practical way to explain your contribution: what was wrong, what you changed and why it helped.

Hard to Dismiss | Introduction
Animated book adaptation.
#CareerGrowth

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Your client asks for quality and keeps pushing for speed. Try asking, “What happens if this arrives a day later?” Let them explain what the deadline affects.

Hard to Dismiss | Strategy 2
#CareerDevelopment
https://t.co/2Lx4ppvRTF

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Put on the spot? “Give me a moment to find the invoice. I don’t want to guess.” A small pause gives Beatrice time to answer properly.

The Sentence You Choose | Ch. 4
#CommunicationSkills
https://t.co/GgPEnesKVT

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Hard to Dismiss | Strategy 01
Your manager values your work. But who makes the promotion decision? Ask what they need to see from you.
A short animated book lesson by J.S. Ibitoye.
#CareerDevelopment
https://t.co/2Lx4ppvk47

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The Sentence You Choose | Chapter 03
"We need to talk." Before answering the accusation you imagined, try: "Sure. What's it about?"
A short book lesson by J.S. Ibitoye.
#CommunicationSkills
https://t.co/GgPEnesd6l

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You do the hard work. Someone else gets the credit.

Josh starts with a practical way to explain your contribution: what was wrong, what you changed and why it helped.

Hard to Dismiss | Introduction
Animated book adaptation.
#CareerGrowth

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You offered a solution. They heard criticism.

Before defending your idea, try: "What do you like about this one?"

The Sentence You Choose | Ch. 2
A short adaptation about understanding before arguing.
#ActiveListening

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"It was a joke."

What can you say when a comment hurt you, but the other person brushes it off? Elena names one boundary and leaves out the final jab.

The Sentence You Choose | Ch. 1, Part 2/2
Short chapter adaptation.
#SettingBoundaries

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That angry message might feel good for 10 seconds. What happens after you send it?

Elena tries a different reply.

The Sentence You Choose | Ch. 1, Part 1/2
Short chapter adaptation.
#CommunicationSkills

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Ever find the right words after the conversation is over?

The Sentence You Choose starts here: short lessons on speaking up, saying no and handling difficult conversations.

Introduction | J.S. Ibitoye
#CommunicationSkills

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@dammiedammie35 go school then no go gree, now see you 😂

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@RadioGenoa What’s this nah. Why ???

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@FrankNwekeII Jesus

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@MSHPAlerts What happened

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@iamyesyouareno Why

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@missfacto @PicturesFoIder This is what happens when kids don’t get spanked for bad behavior. The Bible established that there’s madness locked in their hearts and you spank them to set that madness free. God help us

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@dammiedammie35 I love my country Oloun 😂

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@iamofficialobj @_Debbie_OA 😂

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@Naija_PR What God cannot do does not exist 🙌

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@_Debbie_OA This is nothing but the finger of God ❣️❣️❣️