@keavikus@kyaa_snow Here a scoop Sherlock, you cant WILLINGLY sleep with someone you arent attracted to, if you get sexual pleasure by sleeping with men, then there is, even if small, an attraction
So yes sleeping with men prove an attraction to them which is against the word EXCLUSIVELY in the def
@keavikus@kyaa_snow That's not the action itself, that's the fact to fuck men actively and willingly that make them bisexual
And its funny you talk about conversation therapy when you are the one showing off a big sign "men come hit on lesbians they can take dick!!"
@crissiton@insomniasstits@W1TCHCHlCK128@IsabellaScar2 Wow wow i stop you right there, i dont know where you got that it come from terf to not wanting lesbianism being associates with men but that's plain wrong, im pretty sure the vaste majority reject the idea of fluid lesbianism, so they all terf? Nuh huh
@BRE4CH@_shivroy Its feeling dishonest to say that, nobody is freaking out about exploring sexuality or being a late bloom, its about people wanting to be under the lesbian label while WANTING to fuck or date actively with men
@insomniasstits@crissiton@W1TCHCHlCK128@IsabellaScar2 Except that saying lesbianism can be fluid MAKE lesbianism fluid by default, the second you add exception to a definition, it WILL alter the definition.
You are putting lesbians and gays on a spectrum when its not, its non fluid where homosexuality can be fluid
@TimTamKitKattt @lesbotron___ Lesbianism cant be a part of their identity if it break its meaning, it isnt an aesthetic or a vibe. There a fair amount of proud fluid cultur that they can live through such as bisexuality or abrosexual for exemple, but i guess its okay to ignore them
@crissiton@insomniasstits@W1TCHCHlCK128@IsabellaScar2 its not about being aware or not, lesbians and gays have been claiming to be strictly homosexual and homoromantic (except for aces as they dont include the opposite gender in the sexuality so they are totally valid), they are not fluid sexualities like bi or abro
@crissiton@insomniasstits@W1TCHCHlCK128@IsabellaScar2 i agree that men are the ones to blame, i didnt meant otherwise sorry, but i think its still fair to call out forced fluidity and being worried of the consequence
@insomniasstits@W1TCHCHlCK128@IsabellaScar2 it is a pretty big me problem, lesbianism is a non fluid label with no exception, forcing it to be fluid (against the consent of a big part of the community) WILL encourage men to hit on lesbian thinking its fluid, also your losing the point, the debate is about misleading
shut the fuck UUUUUP if your sexuality it at all fluid or fluctuating and involving men, the lesbian does NOT apply to you, and you are NOT a lesbian and don’t get to decide what’s lesbophobia and Whats not. Acting like lesbians can ever like men or its fluid IS lesbophobic.
@insomniasstits@W1TCHCHlCK128@IsabellaScar2 Being all vulgar and pointing out they are hurtful when you are the one being dangerous, kicking a huge door open to men to be even more predatory against lesbians that they are just for the temporary comfort of some confused folks
@RochBroke@ImNotALassie I see what you mean now, but lesbianism is strictly homosexual and homoromantic, you can be homosexual and biromantic, just dont use the word lesbian in the label