honestly, my main priority right now is getting my life on track and becoming a better me. i couldn't care less who stays or who goes, this chapter of my life is for me.
I have no problem eating alone, traveling alone, doing everything alone. People act like that’s sad. You know what’s actually sad? Never doing anything because you couldn’t find someone to come with you.
I’ve spent too long showing up for people who barely acknowledge me.
From now on, my energy goes where it’s appreciated, my effort goes where it’s reciprocated, and my time goes where I’m valued. ✌🏼
Normalize not forcing your importance in someone's life. Let people do what they want so you can see what they'd rather do. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.
Once I've addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, I stop caring. It's above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.