Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.
It becomes easier to socialize when you actually have things to talk about and you gain things to talk about when you actually have hobbies and experience. You get cooler by trying new things. Your taste develops with isolated pursuit of what YOU desire. Basically, go outside.
i don’t beat up the old me. i love her, i understand her and i know exactly why she did what she did.. nobody can hold the old me over my head or use ME against ME because without her i wouldn’t be who i am today. this is me
Shonda Rhimes was so right. “Doing the thing undoes the fear.” Once you do it, its not as scary as you thought. Or maybe it was, and you made it out alive. But the key is just doing the thing.