PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
I want to feel cherished, desired, loved, and valued. I want a relationship where we’re both intentional about nurturing our love and choosing each other every day.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
Marry a man who believes in romance and provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you gifts, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can. You deserve all of that.
As someone with anxiety, i cannot do inconsistency. don’t introduce me to energy and a vibe you don’t plan on maintaining. one minute you’re sweet and the next minute you’re mean and cold. one minute you’re present, the next you’re distant. absolutely not.
Update your partner. Not because they asked, but because they matter.
A quick text. A short call. A simple “I made it” or “I’m heading home.” These aren’t rules of a relationship. They’re acts of love. They say, “You’re on my mind and I want you to know.”
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Clarifying things so the other person doesn't overthink is also a form of emotional responsibility. Reassurance is a love language that doesn't get talked about enough.
Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me