after you establish a paper trail of trying to do the right thing, as a woman, you have to be prepared to do the other thing.
i'm going to tell you what my great grandmothers told us: the law is not coming. you can dig a ditch or be buried in one.
Because men drain the life out of you, and a breakup/divorce frees women from the emotional labor, the domestic load, the caretaking and the constant managing of a grown man’s needs. Nothing holds a woman back like a man.
Landlords like to act as if they’re simply receiving compensation for a service when the reality is that they’re hoarding a basic need and profiting off of functional extortion - giving you an option between paying them or living on the street and pretending they’re benevolent.
It still surprises me how often I see friends get wrecked by things that couldn’t be easier for me, and me get wrecked by things they can’t even imagine has wreckability. I think people are really different and if you try to play someone other than you you autolose
1 in every 3 people killed by a stranger is killed by a police officer. So you might think the biggest threat to your life is some random shooter or gang. But the one organized group that is most likely to shoot and kill you is the police, and it’s not even close.
Men can hug each other. “Male loneliness crisis” is code for “lack of easy access to intimacy with women.” This isn’t a crisis. Please let the widespread catastrophic harm committed against women by men which society is designed to push under the rug “shift your reality”