Rukky

lawyer || enthralling 🥺✨💙 #Abudantgrace

[A.VICTOR @Lifeof_AG01]

One of the hardest things about relationships is accepting that loving someone doesn’t automatically make you compatible with them.

Two good people can care deeply about each other and still want different lives.

Different priorities.
Different communication styles.
Different ideas about money, family, ambition, or even what peace looks like.

We sometimes treat every failed relationship as proof that someone didn’t love enough.

Maybe sometimes love was there, but compatibility wasn’t.

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@aleruchi_kinika I saw this post, I went into a spiral mode for half an hour. I was thinking if maybe I’m the mad one and how you brought it back to my TL😭😭

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Platomasochist @1EntreProNegro What you mean febreze?? Stop it 😭

[Deisine @TDeisine]

Someone said women did not start decentering their husbands today. It started long before. That is why when women cry to their mothers that, “oh, my husband is maltreating me, my husband does not give me attention”, the mothers always tell them, “focus on your children”.

That's because their mothers have learned to decenter their husbands. They don't make their husbands center of their world. They focus on their children. Their husbands were just meant to give them children and then they find comfort in their women groups. Their husbands were never a part of that.

The difference is those women decentered their husbands under the patriarchy, while women of now are decentering their husbands under feminism.

At the end of the day, Women have always learned to survive disappointing husbands.
The women of the past were told, "Focus on your children." Today's women are told, "Decenter your husband."

The language changed, but perhaps the underlying problem didn't. women have repeatedly been taught how to build a fulfilling life around a marriage that isn't fulfilling them.

If a woman has to emotionally remove her husband from the center of her life just to survive being married to him, what exactly is the marriage providing that a partnership wouldn't?

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Busayo_xoxo @It_Chioma I wish I could post a picture right now, I’m eating moi moi and it’s a bit dry from the microwaving 😭😭

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@thebarakah_ A whole big lawyer oo, pls nor stress that woman😂😂

[Ada🌸 @Starrgirl_Ada]

Another day to remind you that you mean nothing to a married man

[★ @Luv_Xcuses]

To be born from a woman's body, then spend history minimizing motherhood and denying women recognition for the labor of creating life, is one of patriarchy's deepest contradictions.

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Farisalfarik @yabaleftonline Pls stop 😭😭 riding a bike she owns or have access to is normal but telling an aboki to sit behind so she does the riding….no nah!!😂😂

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Farisalfarik @yabaleftonline Na lie😂😂😂

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Backhat_dude @TheManTailor Omo…I almost cried in public

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@suchaboo Bae, I clicked on your link and it says it has expired

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Joshissilly_0 @UnkleAyo Stop😂😂😂

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@YusufAsunmogejo @damonbarak Chai…na wa. See what a woman should do to ensure she massages a man’s ego even if it means ruining a strong source of livelihood. Women dey suffer oo. she should accommodate a demonic behaviour?? Oh🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@CVera__ @Lyriicalwizzy Sister, they are God’s favourites. I stay in my bed with my all my lights off , phone on sleep mode, and everywhere quiet and I still stay awake for like 30 minutes or 1 hour before the sleep come and don’t get me started on the stupid scenarios my brain has to play first 😭😭

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@CVera__ @Lyriicalwizzy Your comment, I feel seen😂😂. Some of us struggle to sleep so we can’t mess the sleep pattern up.

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@munahtee @Oreofe__Femi Everything get size😭😭

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@Be_like_legend I’m not neurodivergent but I strongly feel 7 is green

[Boogyman @tobbsticks1]

@Omolomo_o @khanofkhans11_ The S.I unit of Unintellgence is measured in Pellergram

E.g:
Apc supporters are born naturally with stupidity of about 5000pellergrams at birth

[Rukky @JulietRukevwe]

@TomiwaTegbe 😂😂😂 true