@Hon_Manii The act of living modestly is the key to life of smooth living without much societal pressure. Here you can build consistently without destroying yourself in the process.
A man dating a single mother should understand that he is not automatically the father of her child. But that doesn't mean he should have no authority to correct a child who is living under the same roof with him.
A relationship is about partnership, and partnership requires mutual respect. If a woman expects a man to accept the responsibilities that come with dating her, she should also be willing to discuss the responsibilities and boundaries that come with raising a child together.
However, there is a difference between correcting a child and beating a child. A man doesn't have to use violence to demonstrate authority, and no child should be subjected to physical abuse.
The woman also needs to understand that constantly undermining her partner whenever he tries to address a child's unacceptable behaviour can create serious problems in the relationship. At the same time, the man must understand that being a partner doesn't give him unlimited power over someone else's child.
The real issue here is not who has the greater authority. It is whether two adults can agree on how to raise a child, respect each other's boundaries and protect the child's well-being.
If they cannot agree on something as fundamental as this, ending the relationship may be the most sensible decision. A child should not have to live in the middle of a constant power struggle between two adults.
There is this urge that comes with a downfall: you urgently want to get back at your feet.
Because you want to get back at your feet at all cost you make more mistakes. This is because you are too much in a hurry to stand.
Take it easy.
You will see clearly
@tferriss We don't have to do many things to prove that we are making progress. Doing many things can even destroy our capacity to think straight. It can befuldle our thinking. But doing little with much intensity can produce remarkable result.
@AnamaliHarriso1 Forgiveness is letting go the grudge and animosity that you have towards the offender. It doesn't mean you should enhance or amplify the behavior of the offender. Forgive but set boundaries.
@Coach_Obinna Teaching children early on about the concept of money-how it works and how it flows - will significantly enhance their ability to make money through the process of exchanging value.
@realFFK Nigerians should leave south Africa. The way our government is treating this matter annoys me. The Nigerian government should call them to order. This is getting too much and I urge the government to take action to curb this menace.
Your internal representation of the many things happening around you significantly affect your overall behavior.
Your behavior is a result of how you have represented things in your mind. How you interpret events and situations culminate into the internal representation.
For as a thinketh in his heart so is he.
You have to interpret your situation in a way that will infinitely impact your perspective.
You can't let your situation define who you become. Rather you have to make sure that you respond wisely and tactfully.
See you at the top!!!
The rain that fell today really did damage to people's homes. Someone's full house was covered with water. From the compound to the parlor down to the rooms. It was devastating to see.
I know that man won't sleep well tonight.
Bro to bro
You want fast cars
You want a nice house
You want a huge bank account
If you have these things and got yourself a disloyal woman you won't enjoy them.
Priotize marrying a loyal woman and your fortune will grow and you will enjoy them.
@BashirAhmaad That the Arabic language is written on our banknote tells more about the foundation of our country. Our founding fathers should be questioned about this conception I think. We shouldn't just dispel the call people make about this.
@Hon_Manii The act of living modestly is the key to life of smooth living without much societal pressure. Here you can build consistently without destroying yourself in the process.