Iโm going to try this reading challenge this year (and attempt to actually finish it in one year this time ๐)
Anyone want to join? Also, let me know if you want to join a Twitter book club DM room ๐ค
If youโre curious what itโs like to be the โbig girlโ in a friend group, imagine youโre out celebrating your birthday with your friends, and a group of guys are chatting and looking over at your table, itโs loud and obvious theyโre talking about someone(s) at your table.
One of the guys then approaches the table and taps your shoulder, he starts asking about you, your name, age, job, etc. Then he asks the golden question, โcan I have your phone number?โ
You hesitate because this doesnโt happen often. However, your friends hype you up. So you start to give your number, when he turns around and shouts to his friends โyou guys owe me $50โ
All the guys start laughing. You hear one guy say โI told you fat girls are easy.โ
These situations of jokingly asking out big girls or pretending to be interested in them, is sickening. Itโs one of the many reasons why I personally did not date until I lost weight.
Someone could have actually been interested in me, but when youโre made fun of and used as a joke so many times, you learn to protect yourself.
To people who do this, you suck. Your parents didnโt raise you well & everyone deserves respect no matter their size.