Self note: People can think, judge and say whatever they want about you. Don't let those words and thoughts identify you. You are the creator of your path, your mistakes and past experiences have made who you are today. So ignore the noise and move on.
There are situations that don't depend on you; don't waste your energy on what you can't change and focus on everything where you have room to act; from there, value your effort more than the results. In life, you can either get bitter every day or rise after each fall